Why I Effectively Left Affiliate Marketing
Following on from John Lamberton's great post about why he hates affiliate marketing, I'd thought I post my thoughts.
Basically I agree with him. A couple of years ago the industry really started to piss me off! And here's why:
So Lonely - John's right in saying being an affiliate on your todd is lonely. I felt it at times. Luckily whilst doing all my affiliate sites I'd still have SEO clients, I just reduced the number and how much input they had. This kept my mental juices flowing on other challenging areas and kept me in contact with the good mates I built up there.
It is annoying that the only people you'd see during 8am-6pm would be the postie or the neighbours coming and going. So that's one reason I reduced my involvement with the industry.
No Set Hours - To be honest I liked this. For about 3 years I never set my alarm (except if I had an early flight). I love working early in the morning or late at night. I hate and I mean hate working in the afternoon! Affiliate marketing was the perfect way to maximise my working hours.
No-one understands you - Luckily my brother and father work(ed) in the IT industry. By brother's a kick-arse web designer. And my father was a fantastic IT project manager covering both public and private sectors. They fully understood what I did. My mother was pretty clued up too. Most of my mates work in the industry or in supporting industries. When it came to my girlfriends that wasn't as bad as perhaps it could be. All of them tried to help in one way or the other.
The funny thing is when you go and buy a house or have legal issues with ex-girlfriends, the solicitors just don't have a clue. I'd just say "internet marketing, I help companies sell more online" - and that'd solve it.
People think you’re grubby - That's true we all know the Nick Robinson comments. We're all tarred with the same brush. People say to me that SEO (as a tool for affiliate marketing) is a black art and that we're all geeky people that don't see the day of light. We also, apparently have no morals, which, at times is true! I agree with John when he said "Most of the full-time, professional affiliates are upstanding, hard-working people that bring a lot to the table. Quite often it’s the newbies looking for a quick buck that try things on, but it’s the rest of us who lose out." - Too true.
There’s no security - Very true. You have to make your own security, however. Save as much as you can to ride you through the rough times when Google kicks your sites out, or merchants don't pay. But it's that good 'ole "risk and reward" thing. We risk a lot (our time - opportunity cost of working for someone else for quite a bit of cash, in the expectation of earning substantially more).
The Goalposts are always moving - now this is the bit that made me pull back big time. Merchants think it's their right to break contracts and dictate the exact fashion in which we work. It's not right and it just breaks relationships.
Too many suits, Not enough substance - I agree totally. I reduced the number of G2G's I went to because they were too stuffy, filled with people that just wanted to harass me about programmes I had no interest in and prevent me from having a good time. This is why I generally only go to Affiliate Future G2G's because you're guaranteed to have a laugh and not be force fed merchant crap.
But here's some of my own:
Too many numpties - there are loads of plonkers in the industry that just try and screw everyone they can. They'll ride roughshod over merchant terms, deliver absolutely crap leads and give the industry a bad name. They know exactly who they are! It just pissed me off that merchants would be so anal and OTT with all affiliates because of the few that really did take the piss.
Lack of support from networks - There were a number of issues that caused me to get very angry. The first was when I was ppc'ing a credit card with OMG. Because the leads were batched I had no way of knowing that it was converting. The only problem was that the campaign stopped the end of the previous month and we were half way through the next month. No one from OMG contacted me to let me know the day before - even though the allegedly called everyone else. That cost me around £3k.
Another time, with Buy.at I would have expected so much more with the HMV Wii "sales" - in my mind they totally miss-managed the whole affair.
There are too many other instances like this, but I won't go into them now.
Merchants that just don't have a clue - There are far too many examples of merchants that don't understand how the internet works but still feel they have the ability to run an affiliate marketing campaign. Things like "you can't use our brand on your website or in ppc, but still promote us". WTF - are you having a laugh? Merchants do this all the time, but hey they'll end up wasting their time and budget.
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10 Comments:
you know what, it was and is affiliates like you that keep me going in affiliate marketing, the small independent guys and girls that need support and protection, Ill defend you guys and girls every time and Ill keep on trying to make things better for you. But I am one person and if the support is not forth coming from other affiliates, then I’m limited in what I can do.
This is the third blow I have had this week. I was talking to an affiliate that I got to know back in 2000, he is giving affiliate marketing up, for similar reasons, he was always up there and out there and a top earner. There is a battlefield going on out there where people who really could change things to help affiliates, seem not to know what to do or how to do it. We all seem to be operating as individuals, wrapped up in our own worlds with our own daily trials.
I speak on forums and blogs about collectivism and Im called a lefty, affiliates need to start taking care of each other in terms of a collective interest, which is why I have always advocated that an affiliate association should be set up by affiliates and for affiliates.
Lee, I have such a deep respect for you and others, that this truly saddens me, to read your post. I understand, even the part about ex partners (my brother is going through some thing similar) and I cant and wont let you quit, you cant give up the fight, you have the chance to shape the future. Nothing is written in stone and that’s the very problem, affiliate marketing is all so ambiguous, the irony is, there are rules its just there is no one at this moment in time to enforce them.
Lee you are a thought shaper, a leader and the model example of a good affiliate, I don’t want to come across as insincere, I mean every word.
If you give up, you are giving up on the people who are trying so hard to change things for the better. I know you don’t need me and the likes of Paul Wheatley, Fraser Edwards, Kieron Donoghue and the rest of the community who are trying to make things a little more tolerable, but did you stop to think that we may need you?
Lee, I hear every word and no matter what happens, we are mates and Im just a phone call or email away. You cant quit and I wont let you! We need you!
Lee just think BARBADOS!
Seriously, I agree with some points but also would like to comment on a few myself;
So Lonely.....
Yes I couldn't agree more. This is one thing that stopped me from going fulltime. I have the option of working from home as it is, and choose only to do it to write reports etc.
Merchants that just don't have a clue.....
I think its fair to say SOME Merchants don't have a clue, but certainly there are some very pro-active fully understanding ones out there such as PrezzyBox, BuyAGift, GettingPersonal etc.
Too many suits, Not enough substance.....
Not sure which was the last G2G you attended, but they are always great P'ups. I find that I'm not hounded as much as I used to be, and most times its just a chance to catch up with friends in the same industry... with a spot of business thrown in.
There’s no security.....
There is as much security as working for an employer. Having been made redundant once when 25 by a large multinational, and now facing outsourcing from another multinational (we are talking big here... over 100,000 employees globally). Sadly, companies aren't what they used to be... secure...
Seriously hope you don't jack it all in mate. You'll be missed.
Hang in there Lee, I know it can get frustrating at times and the lows sometimes take a bit of getting through but I have found that the high points eventually make it all worthwhile. Every time I go through a rough patch I get a piece of paper and list the pluses and minuses of affiliate marketing so far the plus side has always been the longer list :)
Hey up!!
The post was past tense - one half of my posts for today. The next post is going to be "and why I'm back!".
You guys are bloody amazing! And is to be one of the reasons why I'm starting to work my nuts off again (in affiliate marketing of course).
I hope my post didn't seem melodramatic. I didn't expect so many people to respond so quickly. Me and my blogging experience should have realised that people do actually (if not only occasionally) read what I write.
So if I don't do it today (as I'm manic) I'll do it tomorrow.
Thanks guys, you rock!
OK, a very short comment, the industry is great, yes many negatives and I agree with an awful lot of comments in your post, however when you can choose your hours, earn good money "more than a lot of day jobs" and in some cases go out for the day and earn more than you spent by the time you get home.
There are great people in the industry and many become very good friends, not just associates or colleague, if one reason to leave is being lonely, consider joint development projects and get an office together "does not have top cost a lot" make it feel like going to work and talk to people in an office....
The positives outway the negaitives, full time affiliate with your own working hours/schedule means you can meet people in other ways, go tyo the gym at 3pm in the afternoon, and stuff like that
Lee only met you once or twice and I am sure you will miss it if you leave....
Wow this sucks! Everyone tells me you're a great guy Lee, a real "Value Add" affiliate...and now you're getting out before we've had chance to work together!!! Okay I blame myself, we only have one UK client, and it's on LinkShare UK...but come on give me a chance!
The AM business is 100% communication and trust. Failure to communicate resulting in a loss of trust.
As the other Chris said, there are a lot of solid merchants and AMs around, don't let a couple that know squat, and can't communicate stop you from doing what you are good at!
As for people and times, I adopted a bunch of new hobbies to make sure I meet people outside of the business, do I care if they know what I do or even understand, nope because I don't bring it up :) Time wise my biggest challenge is getting away from my lap top and not checking for spam.. I mean email... every 15 minutes. I really should get out a LOT more :)
All points are valid and he also points out some of the issues people in the affiliate marketing space have to deal with that can and could be improved on.
Some of the points are also up to himself and he controls what to do with them to use them to his advantage.
There are some things you will lose as an affiliate marketer or any other type home based business where you have full control over your own time. For those things is it necessary to find something for yourself to fill that void.
Some people can't and it will become an issue. I would never say that it is easy and I also say that most people are not able to make it work right for them. Success is not only measured in the amount of money you make. How you deal with the environment you live in, which is different than a 9-5 office environment for most, is as much important to be able to see what you do and got out of it as a success as well.
If you made a lot of money, but were completely unable to adjust your personal life to make you happy and feel satisfaction for what you have accomplished, then you might look successful to somebody who does not know you, but would have failed from your perspective and from the perspective of people who love you.
You can make a lot of money as independent and high paid consultant, if you are an expert for something people need at the right time. In most cases comes the need for a lot of traveling with that. You live out of the suitcase and spend a lot of time at airports and airplanes, make more miles than you could possibly use and are more time away from home than time at home with your family. Most people can't handle this, at least not for an extended period of time. Some people can cope with that and are able to adjust to have a fulfilling life and be happy doing what they do. In 99% of cases does a gain of one thing cause directly or indirectly the loss of something else in return for that gain.
Finding the balance that is right for you and makes you happy is true success. Anything else does not matter as is fake, show and irrelevant.
Lee seemed to have realized that it does not work for him and that he cannot compensate for the losses we got in return for the other gains. If he decides to do things different, he is already a step ahead of other people who are unhappy without knowing why that is. Holding him back is not doing him a favor. If doing things different means to quit what he is doing, let him quit and find the thing that will work for him and make him happy.
What works for me probably would not work for him. I will not give him any advice because of that. If you are a friend of his, let him do what he thinks is right and just be there in case he needs your help or advice. That is what true friends are for and makes a true friend in the first place.
Cheers!
Carsten
http://www.cumbrowski.com
(I added the link, because my blogger.com profile points to my personal hobby site... It's for the people who want to know who the heck the person is who writes such long comments at Jess's blog :) )
OOps, I made the comment at your blog Lee and not on Jess's, too many browser windows open I guess. But well, having it posted here might be better actually.
Sorry for talking about you in 3rd person though :)
Carsten
Hi Lee
I read both why you were leaving and glad to see you are staying. I dont know you, we have never met.
But keep going, dont give it up, you would regret it. How can you leave an industry that is as flexible as this one. Sure its tough, sure there will be days when you wonder why you are doing all of this, the but there is more good then bad. Besides, Jess said she would not let you quit and Jess is nothing, if not determined!
Hang in there!
Danny
Hey I like how you called me a kick arse designer bro! And I think that all your comments are spot on and very well articulated, gees we can see who got the grammar gean in our family!
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